See, I think this is unfair. Like it or not, 99% of men aren't good at reading subtle signs or reading between the lines. What the heck kind of hints must they navigate before a simple, "hi, how are you" or "can i buy you a drink"?? I'm a rape survivor, so I understand fear. But maybe we shouldn't default to "he's a predator!!" every freaking time a man says hello. Just a thought.