I felt for you while reading. I am a musician too, though not as prolific as your husband is. I LOVE it, but my husband and I kind of mapped out the boundaries beforehand. I never do more than 2 gigs a month; however, I am a solo artist, so I can make that choice easier. If I were ever at a venue where your hubby performed, I would plop down right next to you and ask you about your writing. :)